Manisha’s MoneyZen Blog

Be Where You Are: to experience true MoneyJoy

“When we are mindful, deeply in touch with the present moment,
our understanding of what is going on deepens,
and we begin to be filled with acceptance, joy, peace and love.”

- Thich Nhat Hahn

Money makes many of us miserable. Study after study shows how financial worries make us fat, stress out our kids, cause us to lose sleep, and ruin our relationships.

Photo credit: Louis Leray

So what are we to do? Conventional financial wisdom starts with facts:  how to save more, spend less, and pay down our debt. While those are clearly vital steps, I no longer think they are enough. To truly eliminate financial stress we need to question the very role we want money to play in our lives.

Over the past few years, I made the shift from corporate employee to self-employed entrepreneur. Being a financially conservative money expert, the change from a steady, predictable income to a volatile, self-directed income stream was terrifying.

Then I stumbled on a secret. Occasionally, I’d find myself having brief moments of feeling fully present, aware and grateful for life. In those brief, delicious moments I began to see how financial angst often comes from striving to be somewhere other than where we are right now.

To be clear, I’m not denying the presence of real financial difficulties. Rather, I see the need for a powerful shift in the way we think about money. Why we are striving for things that often leave our souls empty? Reflecting on this right-brain question can free us to act on the practical left-brain advice that improves our financial well-being.

With this in mind, I want to share with you three financial practices to help you bridge the gap between your left and right brains… and maximize the MoneyJoy in your life. 

  1. Be where you are… to shift the way you relate to money. Being in the now snaps us out of the default mode of modern life’s relentless, blinding pace, where we can no longer see reality for what it is. When you are more connected to the present, you are more connected with who you are. This essential self-knowledge gives you greater clarity about how you want to spend your money.
  2. Accept the present… to protect yourself from financial fear and social anxiety. Financial fear is often based on beliefs about the past or future. When you are captivated by the past or obsessed with the future, you are much more susceptible to look to spending as a way to relieve suffering. A joyful, expansive sense of identity and purpose in the present helps us relate to our finances from a place of peace.
  3. Reconnect with your finances… to find true freedom. First create some space to reconnect with the truth of who you are and what you desire for your financial life. Next, get real about where you are, without judgment. Write down what you own and owe, what you earn and spend, and find out your credit score. From this place of peace and understanding, your next steps will be clearer. Acceptance of what is creates the energy for transformation.

Are you ready to begin your own journey of MoneyZen? I invite you to adopt one (or more!) of these practices in your daily life.

Comments

  1. Fashion News…

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  2. Manisha Thakor: I totally agree. There are many things that society “suggests” we should want, when in fact they don’t benefit us, directly or indirectly. So much of what we are conditioned to want involves being somewhere else and some-when else, because we can’t have many things RIGHT NOW.
    Knowing thyself is a first step, and seeing that one is where they are for a reason. Having ambition isn’t bad, but goals that are centered on personal development and education, as opposed to just making money, are better. It’s a fact that in our market economy money is needed to pay for everything, nearly. A health perspective towards what money is, and is not, is valuable to putting good and bad aspects of life in proper proportion.

    And I support your efforts at the education of girls and women on handling money and attaining independence, a life of their own when and if they want it.

  3. Rainbow World Optical Mode…

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  4. Wise words Brian, thanks for sharing. Figuring out how to navigate that fine line between “ambition” and “being here now” is fascinating to me… and modern media messages sure don’t make it easy for any of us to find that sweet spot. Here’s to more dialogue around the globe as we collectively figure out how to keep making this world a better, more joy-filled place for all.

  5. Thank you so much…. the obsession with the dollar needs to be reframed into new ways of “mindful” thinking…

  6. Wonderful way of looking at things~

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About Manisha’s Money Zen Blog

This blog chronicles my quest to identify simple, joyful methods that we can all use to feel calmer and more balanced in our relationship to our money.

Despite the abundance of personal finance books, magazines, radio programs and TV shows that have exploded into our lives over the past two decades, most of us struggle to find financial sanity, security and serenity. Rather than help us eliminate money pain, all this information has left us feeling overwhelmed and confused. We need fresh wisdom to break out of the cycle of despair and create lives of abundance.

Here’s hoping these short pieces will help you craft a uniquely rich and rewarding life.

To Your MoneyZen,
– Manisha